A woman and her daughters used to enjoy going on girls’ trips together, but they started excluding the daughter-in-law, Beth, because she was hindering their fun. The woman was wondering if she made the right decision.

The woman, who has three daughters, explained that she and her girls loved going on day trips. When her son married Beth, she started including her in their outings. However, after Beth had a child, it became difficult to include her because of her weight.

Beth had not lost her baby weight, which made it challenging for her to keep up with the group. The woman admitted that she used to like Beth, but her attitude and inability to keep up on trips had changed her opinion. She mentioned a recent trip to a farm where Beth wanted to sit down most of the day.

When Beth called to ask why she wasn’t invited to a trip to an orchard, the woman lied and said it was just a family trip. However, Beth called her out on her lie. The woman then told Beth the truth, explaining that her weight and the constant breaks ruined their girls’ trips.

Beth was upset and called the woman a “jerk” before hanging up. The woman’s son demanded an apology for Beth, but the woman’s daughters supported her decision, as they were tired of their trips being ruined.

The woman turned to Reddit for unbiased opinions on whether she was wrong for excluding Beth due to her weight. While some thought she was wrong, many agreed with her decision but suggested she could have phrased it better.

Some pointed out that Beth should be okay with not participating in physically demanding activities or find ways to keep up with the group. Others believed that Beth’s attitude, not her weight, would be the main reason for exclusion in the future.

In conclusion, while some disagreed with the woman’s decision, many Reddit users supported her and advised her to communicate her concerns in a more compassionate way. Ultimately, it’s important to consider the physical limitations and interests of everyone involved when planning family activities.