The internet is full of strange and unusual opinions that tend to get a lot of attention. And now, a self-proclaimed relationship expert is making headlines with their unique recommendation for parents – asking for their baby’s permission before changing their diaper. Yes, you read that right.
Deanne Carson, a ‘sexuality educator, speaker, and author’, suggested that parents should introduce the concept of consent at a very young age, even with babies. While she acknowledges that babies won’t be able to verbally respond, she believes that they can communicate their consent through nonverbal cues like eye contact.
Carson believes that by asking babies for permission to change their nappy, parents can establish a culture of consent in the home and deepen the communication between parent and child. She suggests allowing a moment for anticipation and waiting for nonverbal cues before proceeding with the diaper change.
Unsurprisingly, this recommendation has stirred up quite a debate. Many parents find the idea of asking a baby’s permission before changing a dirty nappy to be impractical and unnecessary. After all, changing diapers is already a challenging task on its own.
Social media users have expressed their skepticism and amusement at the idea, wondering what would happen if the baby said no. Some even jokingly suggested that the expert must have never dealt with a wriggling toddler or left their child in a soiled diaper until they were ready to give consent.
In the end, it’s important for parents to use their own judgement and do what they feel is best for their child. While the concept of consent is vital, it may not be practical to apply it in every aspect of parenting, especially with babies who are unable to understand or communicate their consent in a conventional way.
So, if you find yourself in a situation where your baby’s nappy needs changing, it’s safe to say that you have the authority to take charge and do what needs to be done. After all, you’re the adult, and sometimes you just have to make the decisions for your little one’s well-being.
Remember, parenting is a journey filled with both joys and challenges, and it’s up to you to navigate through them with love, care, and a healthy dose of common sense.
