Welcome, dear readers, to the baffling world of reality TV where drama is the main course and scandal the dessert! Today, let’s dive into the juicy tale involving The Golden Bachelorette’s contestant, Gil Ramirez. But beware, what you’re about to read may just leave you questioning everything you thought you knew about your favorite senior dating show.

The Golden Bachelorette contestant Gil Ramirez’s past has been revealed, and let’s just say it’s spicier than your grandma’s secret chili recipe!

PEOPLE has acquired documents revealing that Ramirez has a sticky past involving stalking allegations. Just three months ago, his ex-girlfriend filed a temporary restraining order against him, making this story juicier than a ripe peach in July!

According to the court filings dated June 11, just days before screen time, Ramirez’s ex-girlfriend was granted a temporary restraining order due to “harassment — emotional.” Allegedly, Ramirez was quite the persistent admirer, reaching out multiple times a day through texts, videos, and driving an hour just to make unwanted appearances! Ladies and gentlemen, persistence isn’t always a virtue!

The woman claimed that this ordeal lasted for an entire “two-week period thus far,” making us wonder what in the world Gil was thinking!

She firmly requested Ramirez to steer clear of her home, workplace, vehicle, and even her children’s school. The court granted her request, and just when you thought it couldn’t get more intense, the documents show the hearing was initially postponed due to unsuccessful attempts to serve Ramirez. Talk about a cat and mouse game!

Fast forward to the next hearing date, the case was dismissed. Why? Because of “lack of prosecution for lack of service.” Translation: They couldn’t officially catch up to him!

A source close to The Golden Bachelorette told PEOPLE that the filing sneakily transpired between their “thorough background investigation and the beginning of production,” proving that no matter how deep you dig, sometimes surprises come when you least expect them.

Surprisingly, the show has decided to “minimize his screen time,” as if invisibility is the new trend for reality TV stars!

Ramirez, a 60-year-old educator from Mission Viejo, California, earned his way into Joan Vassos’ heart and onto the next week, unfazed by the storm brewing on the side. PEOPLE has reached out to Ramirez for comments, but until then, the saga continues.

And if you thought this was an isolated incident, think again! Last week, the winner of The Bachelorette’s season 21, Devin Strader, also found himself under the spotlight for all the wrong reasons. Accused of breaking into his ex-girlfriend’s home and violating restraining orders, Strader’s saga adds another page to the hefty book of Bachelor Nation scandals!

Devin’s ex alleged in a protection from abuse order that she returned home from a trip only to find her room burglarized, with suspicion immediately falling on Devin who lived just next door. When confronted, she claimed Devin had displayed behaviors reminiscent of a crime thriller, even resorting to burning a restraining order outside her home. Talk about a pyrotechnic flair!

On September 19, Devin fought back against the allegations, declaring the claims as “severely misconstrued” and asserting his innocence vehemently. A temporary restraining order against him was granted in March 2017 but never became permanent due to his ex voluntarily dismissing the request.

Despite the chaos in his love life, Devin spoke wistfully about his past relationship, calling it a “growing experience” and painting a picture of emotional triumph over adversity. Interesting viewpoint, considering the fire and brimstone that seemed ever-present!

It’s clear that the world of The Golden Bachelorette and Bachelor Nation is a rollercoaster of outrageous twists, controversial turns, and more drama than a soap opera marathon! Stay tuned as we unravel more stories where reality sometimes seems stranger than fiction.

Mary’s Take

So there you have it, folks, another chapter in the seemingly endless escapades of Bachelor Nation. It’s almost as if the producers sprinkled a little extra drama seasoning just to keep us on our toes. My advice? Remember, while the show serves entertainment with a side of chaos, it’s the unpredictable candid moments that make us come back for more. And Gil Ramirez? Well, let’s see if he gets more than just a rose!