Ben Affleck, the 51-year-old actor, recently appeared on Kevin Hart’s interview series, Hart to Heart, where he discussed his early career and opened up about his wife, Jennifer Lopez. During the interview, Affleck revealed that he prefers a life out of the spotlight and expressed his shyness and discomfort with excessive attention.

In the following weeks, the fate of Affleck’s two-year marriage to Lopez seemed to be sealed. They put their luxurious 12-bedroom, $68 million Beverly Hills mansion on the market, and Affleck purchased a more modest $20.5 million home on the same day as Lopez’s 55th birthday. Sources exclusively shared with Us Weekly that Affleck is ready for a fresh start and wishes to remain under the radar.

“Ben needed new energy in his life,” says a source. The star’s new home is more aligned with his preferences compared to the estate he shared with Lopez. The source adds, “He’s in a better mindset and is pushing forward.”

Facing Reality

Affleck and Lopez had already been living separate lives for some time. Affleck’s purchase of his new five-bedroom pad, conveniently located close to his ex-wife Jennifer Garner’s home, suggests that their relationship may have reached its end. Although Lopez was hoping they could work through their issues, their demanding careers that often required them to be in different cities took a toll on their relationship.

A third insider believes it’s crucial for couples to be aligned on life goals and put in the effort to communicate effectively. While Lopez and Affleck attempted to make it work, they found themselves in the same patterns.

The separation seems to be relatively smooth so far, with both parties wanting a seamless and amicable resolution. They have a prenuptial agreement in place, which will make the process easier. According to a fifth source, they are finalizing the details and are committed to remaining on good terms. The Affleck source adds that they continue to communicate.

No Looking Back

Affleck has been prioritizing his well-being as he navigates this new chapter in his life. He has been open about his past struggles with drug and alcohol addiction and feels the need to focus on himself right now. Lopez, on the other hand, has been keeping busy with her children and has found solace in getting away from the spotlight.

Affleck has also been spending time with his children and his longtime friend Matt Damon, who has been supportive throughout this ordeal. They are currently working together on their upcoming film RIP. Affleck is not concerned about the negative attention surrounding their split and is grateful for Damon’s friendship.

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