Have you ever felt drawn to the energy and dynamics of a couple’s relationship? According to researchers from Seattle University, you might be symbiosexual. In a recent study titled “Symbiosexual Attraction: An Integrated Mixed-Methods Study,” published in the esteemed Archives of Sexual Behaviour journal, Professor Sally W. Johnston and her team explore this often-overlooked aspect of human desire.
Traditionally, studies have focused on one-on-one interactions, but this research delves into the attraction to the dynamics within pre-existing relationships, rather than the individuals themselves. Johnston, who is also part of the polyamorous community, came across this phenomenon in conversations but realized it was largely ignored in social and academic discourse.
Symbiosexuality, as defined by the study, refers to individuals who are attracted to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships. The research found that many participants experienced a romantic and sexual attraction to the “synergy” present in established couples. Symbiosexuals consider themselves extroverted and are less likely to experience jealousy compared to other sexualities.
Participants in the study shared their experiences of being attracted to the cohesiveness of couples and the interplay between them. One participant, Hayden, explained, “You feed off their energy, their attraction to each other … there’s an interplay between the couple.” Another participant named Sage expressed a desire to be included in a relationship with a couple, stating, “I really think my ideal dynamic might be myself and a couple.”
While symbiosexuality is a relatively new concept academically, it has been explored in popular culture. Fans of shows like Gossip Girl and Tiger King may have already encountered storylines involving attraction within established relationships. The evolving sexual identity has also been depicted in films like Challengers, starring Zendaya, Josh O’Connor, and Mike Faist.
Moving forward, Johnston aims to further explore the dynamics of such relationships and gain a better understanding of evolving sexual identities. Her goal is to reduce stigma faced by both monogamous and non-monogamous communities.
Through this groundbreaking research, we are beginning to understand the unique and diverse nature of human desire. The attraction to symbiotic relationships offers insight into the complex dynamics that can exist within established couples. If you have ever felt drawn to the energy between two people in a relationship, you may be experiencing symbiosexual attraction. Embrace this newfound understanding and appreciate the richness of human connection in all its forms.
