A plus-sized winner of a Miss Alabama beauty contest, Sara Milliken, has responded to online trolls who labeled her an “unhealthy embarrassment.” The 23-year-old was thrilled when she won the top prize in the National American Miss pageant, but her joy was short-lived as she faced a barrage of negative comments about her appearance.
Milliken believes that even something typed over a screen can have a lasting negative impression on people. She understands that such comments, although not affecting her directly, can lead people to do some very dark things to themselves. This incident highlights the impact of cyberbullying and the importance of kindness.
Despite the negative comments, Milliken remains determined to not let the harsh words hold her back as she prepares for the national final in Florida over Thanksgiving.
Among the cruel remarks, Blaine Tom Mieroughts wrote, “I thought it was a beauty pageant,” while Randy Hicks added, “Is that actually considered attractive in Alabama?” John Mason made a hurtful reference to the fast-food chain, saying, “This should have been (M)iss Jack in the Box winner.”
However, Milliken also received overwhelming support from many individuals. Tracie Stephens-Brooks praised her, saying, “To know is to love her. This young lady has a heart of gold and will give anyone in need a helping hand. A beautiful obese diva with style, sass, and a lot of class.” Samantha Thrash Duff expressed her pride, stating, “So proud of her! We watched her all weekend and prayed hard that she would come home with that title! She is an amazing, sweet young woman and is going to do great things!” David Junior added, “Great to finally not see some 100lb, blonde hair blue eyes who wants world peace win! Congrats to Alabama and this Queen!”
Milliken’s victory was her third attempt at the contest, which aims to foster “positive self-image by enhancing natural beauty within.” She competed over Memorial Day Weekend, participating in interviews, volunteer work, and presentations. The pageant scores contestants based on “personality, confidence, and communication,” according to organizers.
The website for the contest states, “Braces, glasses, skin problems, varying heights, weights, and appearances are all a part of creating the special and unique individual that you are and that we want to celebrate.”
Although shocked by the initial negative response, Milliken has since received an outpouring of support from around the world, gaining 2,500 followers on Instagram and Facebook overnight.
She remains focused on spreading positivity and wants to use this experience to make a difference. Despite briefly being affected by the hurtful words, Milliken believes in the power of kindness and the ability to overcome cyberbullying.
Milliken’s story has inspired hundreds of supporters who have flooded her inbox with offers of support. This overwhelming response reinforces the importance of community and positivity in the face of online negativity.
Milliken concluded that no matter what your body looks like or where you come from, you can achieve anything you set your mind to. She truly values the connections she made with other strong and accomplished women during her journey in this pageant.
With her victory, Milliken hopes to bring about positive change and remind everyone of the significance of spreading kindness and embracing individuality.
